I often hear women say, “all men cheat.” It’s a sentiment to which I don’t subscribe. When I hear people say, “all men cheat” or “all women cheat” I believe it’s just an exaggeration based on that persons personal experience. Going forward I am going to reference women referring to men but the sexes are interchangeable. Use what I am saying as you see fit.
Chances are if you believe all men cheat you likely have never witnessed fidelity. That in itself is not enough to make a declaration about all men. Let’s switch gears for a moment. I personally have never seen a scorpion. I haven’t declared that scorpions don’t exist based on me never seeing one. Instead I have recognized if I would like to see a scorpion for myself I will need to change my environment. They simply don’t exist where I live under normal circumstances. Similarly, if you have not come across men that practice fidelity, look around. You may need to change your environment.
There is a saying, “gone but not forgotten.” In the case of fidelity I believe it’s quite the opposite, forgotten by some but not completely gone.